What I Learned During My 31 Day Blogging Break
Thirty one days ago I logged out of WordPress, snapped my laptop shut and walked away from Fallen and Flawed.
I didn’t write posts, respond to comments, update Twitter, linger on Facebook or even peel through my blog reader.
I just sat out the online life for a while and just reveled in my lack of virtual responsibility.
If you’ve ever unloaded a hefty responsibility to someone else before, you know what I’m talking about.
Delegation can be sweet.
Kissing This Blog Goodbye
In fact, it was so sweet I wondered if I’d even return. There was no doubt in my mind that a chapter of my life closed…
The question was: Did I want to open that book again?
I mean, balancing the workload of a blog and wife and children and work–it takes a toll. That’s one of the reasons I developed the 5 A. M. secret.
More importantly, I kind of felt like I’d achieved what I was after: a thorough education in theology.
And while I didn’t walk away with a master’s degree, I grew more than I ever could’ve in a classroom.
So there I was, ready to kiss this blog goodbye. [Scary, I know!]
In fact, on November 7, two days into my sabbatical, I got an email from my blog hosting company telling me I was up for renewal…
Did I want to renew? A fraction of me said no.
However, from the very beginning I’d made a promise that I’d at least run this puppy for two years…
So I renewed it all the while wondering if I made the right decision. Fortunately, this feeling didn’t last.
The Heartrending Part of This Story
This ambivalence toward the blog eventually faded into a complete indifference. So much so I forgot I even owned a blog.
Then came the emails.
A handful of readers wrote with the most precious concern that they were pestering me but with the simple comment that they miss the blog and can’t wait until I return…
That got me rooting through the last blog post comments…and getting a little teary eyed.
It’s fascinating what a few words of encouragement can do.
And so with about ten days left in my sabbatical, I began to champ at the bit. Hungry to get back onto the turf. To rub shoulders–gritty and all–with my precious readers.
And that nervous energy only grew.
An Opportunity for YOU and Me
This story hasn’t quite arrived at this morning though. There’s one more episode I need to share…
And it concerns an article I read about Josh Hanagarn’s–aka, the world’s strongest librarian–stint to write 42 guest posts in 7 weeks.
What Josh’s post opened my eyes to was the world of “guest posting”. Both on other blogs and my own.
For whatever reason it never dawned on me to do this on a frequent basis. Only once have I given someone else the reigns on this blog.
That was a risk well rewarded.
But I’d also pretty much barricaded myself from ever writing for other blogs with the excuse that I didn’t have the time.
What clicked for me was the fact that guest posting will allow me to publish more content than I can on this blog.
Listen. I’m hardwired to write. And flush out ideas at a magnificent pace. Unfortunately, I don’t want to wear you or me out by posting every twelve hours here.
That means I’d be happy to write a post or two for you if you have a blog. In addition, feel free to send me any ideas or articles you might have for Fallen and Flawed.
All you have to do is email me.
Let’s see what we can learn from each other through this collaboration.
Wait. There’s One More Thing
Any reader who’s been with me from the beginning knows I occasionally struggle with the purpose of Fallen and Flawed.
I probably came the closest in my Gospel in 10 words or less post.
However, during my absence–as promised–I engaged in a lot of poetry writing and discussion with friends about Christianity in culture and creativity.
This led me to a little discovery: I was missing those last two C’s in my work here. I was missing culture and creativity.
What does that look like? Simply this: Expanding my borders to include posts on literature, the arts, music and popular culture…
The importance of our cultural mandate to build cities, governments, businesses, schools and museums…
And book reviews outside of the reformed boundaries.
In other words, emphasizing our prerogative to influence the world around us through what we create with our hands and minds.
Think of it as a quick and dirty guide to Christ, culture and creativity.
Are You Ready? I’m Ready
So, it’s great to be back. I’ve got a load of ideas for posts and I look forward to talking to you again. I hope you’ll join me.
And don’t forget: I’m available to write guests posts. Email me if you’re interested.
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20 Comments to What I Learned During My 31 Day Blogging Break
Man. We have missed you on the nets. I cannot wait to see what this blog turns into. Good to have you back, friend.
-Don-
He’s back!
December 7, 2009
Thanks Don and Daniel. Looking forward to what we can do together…
December 7, 2009
Just found your blog via Copyblogger. What a great site! You certainly have a compelling way with words.
Glad to see you back in the good old blogosphere Demian. Okay, I’ve got to humbly admit this: with most blogs, I just ’skim read’ and linger even less than the average 96 seconds, however with your blog, I read every single word. Your blog postings are really that good.
If you ever decide to ‘retire’ from blogging, us loyal readers will convince you to pull a Brett Favre and reconsider that stance.
Keep up the exceptionally insightful posts brother!
I’m glad you’re back! Don and Daniel and I were just tweeting the other day how much we missed Demian’s witty persona.
I second Don’s comment. Welcome back!
I love the idea of doing some guest posting. I have just struggled with how to go about this. There isn’t a “guest posting for dummies” book out there–or at least I haven’t discovered it
Would love to have guest post for you as well as having you guest post for me.
welcome back! you were missed. looking forward to the changes and the new thoughts.
December 7, 2009
Sonya, Justin, Erik and Emily: Thank you so much for the support and kind words. I truly do appreciate your readership. [And Erik, you're making me blush!!!]
Olon: Fire me an email and I’d be happy to write a guest post for you. [Byw: "Guest post for dummies": Write. Edit. Edit some more. Edit. Write. Write. Edit. Email. My ridiculously simple formula. You're free to use it.
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Demian, Welcome back! It certainly appears that the rest did you a world of good, and I’m looking forward to the journey in a new direction.
December 7, 2009
I wondered why you didn’t have a guest blogger, but put it down to you having a very specific vision for your blog and not knowing if anyone could live up to the standard that you set. It never occured to me that you just didn’t think of it…
Anyways… glad your back online.
December 7, 2009
Yeah keep it up Demian, my breakfast won’t be the same without your blog posts.
Let’s see… I googled ‘blog design fee’ and someway, somehow, by clicking through different stuff, serendipitously I ended up… here.
And am I glad I did!
I’ve only read a few of your posts so far and I’m hooked. Can’t wait to read the rest! The posts I’ve read so far resonate strongly with me. You just got yourself another blog (and Twitter) follower.
And oh, ‘welcome back’?
December 8, 2009
Well isn’t it strange that for the first time in a while, last night on the 7th I remembered I hadn’t read fallen and flawed in a while and wondered if your sabbatical was over. And sure enough.. it was. Glad you’re back.
December 8, 2009
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December 8, 2009
Tessa: Well I’m glad you made it here, too! Sorry I can’t help you with web design but hopefully prod you to see Christ more majestically.
Mark, Odi, James W, J Shelton: Thank you for encouragement. I’m glad to be back talking with you guys–especially during breakfast time, James! Hope you’re doing well, everyone.
You were missed, Demian, Your posts are inspirational and assist me with ideas for our church blog.
I’ll be contacting you for an article for sure!
God bless & welcome back.
Thanks Don!
Good to see you back. I’ve thought about doing something like that before also. I’ve never followed through with it though.
Looking forward to working with you bro! Hey, if you want to guest post for me, you’re always welcome to write something for my site.
December 9, 2009
I have a post for you soon, bro…


December 7, 2009